Subject: "what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"     Previous Topic | Next Topic
printerPrinter Friendly view    
Conferences > PB Support and Suggestion Box > Topic #206
Reading Topic #206

xotic_sweet
Member since 28-Dec-09
56 posts		 30-Mar-10, 06:38 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to xotic_sweet xotic_sweet profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
"what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
 
   So ladies,

I had this guy come by and leave w/o leaving a "gift" i mean literally ran to his car and drove off really really fast! Now he is calling again. IDK maybe thinking i am someone else idk. so what do i do?

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

 
Conferences | Topics | Previous Topic | Next Topic

HotAshleyOfReno
Member since 13-Jul-08
1652 posts		 31-Mar-10, 09:18 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to HotAshleyOfReno HotAshleyOfReno profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
1. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #0
 
If he's calling again then you should inform him that he didn't leave a gift last time and that if he wants to see you again then the gift for last time and the gift for this time needs to be set out in plain view before the start. If you don't feel comfortable seeing him again then don't and blacklist him on your own personal list.

Ashley

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

alwayshere2please
Member since 3-Apr-10
48 posts		 07-Apr-10, 04:33 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to alwayshere2please alwayshere2please profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
2. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #0
 
   i agree with posting above me!! dont cause any trouble just explain that you wont see him unless he brings both donations and your able to make sure it is the right amount. untill then just make sure you remember to not see him again....

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

oshunshoney
Member since 21-Oct-05
1254 posts		 10-Apr-10, 09:44 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to oshunshoney oshunshoney profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
3. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #0
 
You invite him over have some big beefy friends kick his ass and get your money. And mess him up to the point he won't phukk with you in anway afterwards.

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

TheQueenBee
Member since 7-Mar-10
424 posts		 17-Apr-10, 01:52 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to TheQueenBee TheQueenBee profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
4. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #3
 
   Sorry you were robbed by this jerk. I would think twice before having anything else to do with him. If you demand the missing donation, and have him bring double, it may be fake bills. He may get pissed and violent. He may stalk, or report you to the hotel, LE etc.

Why would you want any of this drama? I am sure it hurts that he was a cheap loser, but you wern't harmed thankfully.

Get the donation up front. Have him shower, and hide your cash and valuables (I love a room with a safe for this!) or hand it to a friend to hold. I explain that they will leave the envelope, unsealed and in plain sight without comment to indicate they are ready to start before they are allowed to make an appointment. If they hesitate, tell them thanks but you can't see them.

Stay safe and sexy.

QB

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

Uknowuwantme
Member since 24-Jan-07
 19-Apr-10, 01:48 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to Uknowuwantme Uknowuwantme profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
5. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #4
 
   I would ask for both donations if he wanted to visit again. I really dont think that he would call LE. I mean, whats he gonna say? I went to see this provider and never paid her, now shes asking for more money? Seriously, these guys crack me up! They are risking way more than us and they will get in a lot more trouble than us too. And even if they DO call LE on you, they have no proof that you are doing anything wrong. Its a he say she say situation. But for future refference, DO NOT START THE VISIT UNLESS YOU SEE THE DONATION IN A VISIBLE PLACE. It doesnt matter how many times you have seen that person before, you are in a business. Money first, then play time

Sorry that happend to you, hopefully these words helped...
Always stay SAFE and Smart!

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

sailorgirl10
Member since 28-Mar-10
862 posts		 23-Dec-10, 01:19 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to sailorgirl10 sailorgirl10 profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
13. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #4
 
sailorgirl, aka Mz Amber

Yah, i had this happen, except the guy got a phone call, and proceeded to answer it, then got dressed, and high tailed it down the stairs, and he keep calling several times, i have his number on caller id as (jerk), but, when he called on another phone, i knew his voice, he said " i know i messed up, can i bring the cash to you" I said, " no way,mail it to me, then you can come over," I would of never let him in, ever, but it got him to stop calling...

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

candyrain36
Member since 27-Aug-08
1688 posts		 22-Dec-11, 00:07 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to candyrain36 candyrain36 profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
21. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #3
 
OSHUHONEY we think alike get even.Or when you open the door get him on bed and spray him with mace.wanna borrow my stun gun?

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

WILLOW6
Member since 2-Oct-09
24 posts		 14-Aug-10, 11:54 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to WILLOW6 WILLOW6 profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
6. "Um lesson learned get donation first"
In response to message #0
 
   Put z by no and don't answer zs. Safety first

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

1969RedCougar
Member since 10-Sep-09
564 posts		 06-Sep-10, 03:06 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to 1969RedCougar 1969RedCougar profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
7. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #0
 
   Why did you ever even start his appointment without the donation placed on the table? that is the SECOND rule of business, the first is asking if police officer! and the THIRD is telling them where the bathroom is.....

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

SexyRedNHeels
Member since 31-Aug-05
5764 posts		 06-Sep-10, 04:59 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to SexyRedNHeels SexyRedNHeels profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
8. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #7
 
   The beauty of this profession is you have to do what works for YOU!!
I have never asked for the donation up front and can count on one hand how many times I have been stiffed.

You are usually stiffed by the "nice" guys. Otherwise your defenses would be up.

Also..I too have had them call me back for another appt. I never get angry. DONT DO THAT. I simply say..."I'm sorry, the last time you saw me you shorted me the donation so I'm not going to make any future appointments"

I never take an aggressive approach. That's just ME. BELIEVE me..I'd love to say, FUCK OFF ASSHOLE. lol

http://www.mypinkbook.com/dcforum2/User_files/k8nwuxfw2yz7y4ew.jpg

Unfortunately...it's part of the business. The bad part.
Tami xoxo

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

AbbyTheVetStudent
Member since 31-Aug-10
71 posts		 25-Sep-10, 04:46 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to AbbyTheVetStudent AbbyTheVetStudent profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
9. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #7
 
LAST EDITED ON 25-Sep-10 AT 04:48 PM (PST)
 
Ummm, 1969RedCougar, you do know that if they are a police officer, they don't have to tell you, right? And they won't tell you, even when you ask them.

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

billydetroit
Member since 23-Jan-07
5287 posts		 14-Oct-10, 08:18 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to billydetroit billydetroit profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
10. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #9
 
Abby is right. I have taken workshops on this.. COPS do not have to and WILL NOT tell you that they are LE!


IF they HAD to admit it, don't you think every undercover would be FUCKED!


Can u imagine Donnie Brasco backed into a corner by AL Pacino's character, "Donnie, is it true, brother? Are you really a cop?" Nervously, "Ummm..." "WELL?! Are you a snitch or not?" "OKay, okay, I AM! But, please don't kill me!" Yeah right!

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

candyrain36
Member since 27-Aug-08
1688 posts		 05-Dec-10, 09:16 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to candyrain36 candyrain36 profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
11. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #0
 
No do not inform him let me come over and I will hide behind the door with a bat when you open the door I will thump his head and then you can drag him in and I will shit and piss all over him than one of us can go into his car and go hide it. lol sound fun are you interested?

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

xoxo_angelstone_xoxo
Member since 12-Sep-10
351 posts		 11-Dec-10, 07:32 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to xoxo_angelstone_xoxo xoxo_angelstone_xoxo profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
12. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #11
 
Ok about the Jerk that got away..take it as a lesson learned...

You dnt have to ask for the donation up front but....BUT....you can make sure you get it before you give too much of yourself away ...if they haven't already been kind enough to just set it in plain sight...

During a massage or after a shared shower (where he's undressed and your in good comfort) Say "Hey Luv u wanna go ahead and get the donation out"... that way if they run off its not with much LOL

One time a guy wanted to stay longer then our scheduled time and I was supposed to follow him to the atm after the session for the rest of the donation...HAHA...Lets just say his a$$ pulled off like a BAT OUTTA HELL ...I knew I wasn't going to chase him! just saved em in my phone as nono

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

juliagirl
Member since 18-Oct-08
391 posts		 28-Nov-11, 09:31 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to juliagirl juliagirl profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
20. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #11
 
   Candyrain you are a riot! I got such a laugh out of your post!

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

JASMINE21MONROE
Member since 27-Dec-10
1 posts		 13-Jan-11, 03:07 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to JASMINE21MONROE JASMINE21MONROE profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
14. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #0
 
   wait..... u were dumb enough 2 date without getting ur donation up front. wow u were asking for it. u have 2 be a little smarter. This is a business u dont go to the movies and decide afterwards if u want to pay. ur a entertainer always get ur donation up front.

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

juliagirl
Member since 18-Oct-08
391 posts		 22-Jun-11, 09:58 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to juliagirl juliagirl profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
18. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #14
 
   Not having the money up front is just asking to get ripped off. sorry this happened to you. But maybe you will learn from this. I had a guy who did the same to me once. I learned quick. Now I get it up front then hide it while they are in the shower.

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

Naughty_Carrie
Member since 30-Dec-07
197 posts		 22-Mar-11, 02:45 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to Naughty_Carrie Naughty_Carrie profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
15. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #0
 
   Don't see him again! If they don't pay the first time there sure not going to pay for the next time let alone pay double! Come on these guys are just wait for someone to be dumb enough to not get the $ first or even check it. I don't even trust my regulars when it comes to my donation. I'll have them get undressed then ask. You'd be surprised sometimes what excuse they will come up with because they hope do a hit & run... Everyone has there own way of doing thing but I fill like this I wouldn't be charging if I'm just going to give it up for free.. After all there getting my number from sites that say DONATIONS PRICES ARE!!! It's all business first then fun. Just like as soon as we finish I let them clean up and I put the $ on me or somewhere else so there's no chance of them snatching it back on there way out.

Be safe have fun!

Kisses Carrie

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

MzStryct9
Member since 9-Jan-11
514 posts		 29-Mar-11, 05:31 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to MzStryct9 MzStryct9 profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
16. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #0
 
There is a way to send monies threw western union. And you don't have to show ID. I just cant remember how is went at this moment. Something about when you go to pick up the money ..... they ask you a question and you give them the answer. Western Union gives you the money. I'm not sure how it really goes but that is a suggestion.

Call Western Union to find out. **shrugs**


MzStryct9
No Pain! No Gain!

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

sexyjewel4u
Member since 16-May-11
172 posts		 19-May-11, 02:58 AM (PST)
Click to send private message to sexyjewel4u sexyjewel4u profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
17. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #16
 
@MZ Stryct9 the way it works for western union is this. IF you don't have any Id all the person has to do is this: set up a security question and make sure you they give you the answer. but this only applies up to 1,000 bucks. Anything over that you need show id

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

kingsmistress
Member since 16-Dec-10
527 posts		 22-Nov-11, 03:18 PM (PST)
Click to send private message to kingsmistress kingsmistress profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
19. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #0
 
Tell em to come by and KICK HIS ASS LMAO Just Sayin....

Next time get the dough first


Belle jeune prostituée

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

orangejacket
Member since 3-Feb-12
5 posts		 04-Feb-12, 10:47 AM (PST)
orangejacket profileClick to add this user to your buddy list  
22. "RE: what do i do when someone doesnt leave a donation"
In response to message #0
 
   I'd ignore his call. He messed up the first time and there are plenty of other good clients out there.

  Alert Edit | Reply | Quote | Top

Conferences | Topics | Previous Topic | Next Topic
  ©2011 myRedBook S.A. top | faq | terms of use | rb board