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natasha010
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56 posts		 28-Mar-10, 00:34 AM (PST)
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"16 yr old escort"
 
   my little sister who is only 16. i need help. is there any programs for her? shes stuck on some pimp. she says its because she doesnt want to be in a group home. the courts wont let her stay with our parents... please help!!!!!!

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TheRedVelvetMatches
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25 posts		 28-Mar-10, 10:26 PM (PST)
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1. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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How old are you? Why don't you take her?

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Miranda_Velocity
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481 posts		 10-Apr-10, 10:19 PM (PST)
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2. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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   Heavens, what a horrible situation.

There are assorted advocacy groups that you could check in with, but the St.James Infirmary here in SF is a really good starting place in regards to how to get help.

You & your family might also want to check out a recent documentary called "Very Young Girls" that is about teenage sex workers in a really cool rehabilitation program in NYC-- interviews with them, their families, & even some of their former pimps... sometimes it helps to see your story, or a similar situation, in a different light.

Best of luck to you & your sister.

In Red Lipstick & Solidarity,
MV.

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makayla_sweets
Member since 19-Apr-09
477 posts		 19-Apr-10, 10:22 PM (PST)
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3. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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"I need a dog to chase my cat!"

You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. All you can do is love her unconditionally and try to point her in the other direction when you talk to her. Don't abandon her, because that will make her lean more on him. Show her what she can have without him and that there is a place for her to go.

It hurts because thats your baby sister, but right now all you can do is be there for her.

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sadie_love
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54 posts		 07-Jun-10, 07:13 AM (PST)
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5. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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I agree..she needs to feel that she has someone that she can talk to! Let that someone be you...you can't force her to change her mind about the decision she's made all you can do is guide her to a better spot and hope that she takes the chance!

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HOTTYLEAH
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26 posts		 12-May-10, 11:01 AM (PST)
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4. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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   turn the pimp in and he will be gone 4 a long time

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PrettyLeila
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58 posts		 05-Apr-11, 11:11 PM (PST)
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18. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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I agree.

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rachelsonoma1
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 08-Jun-10, 10:37 AM (PST)
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6. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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   I have placed a call to a drug rehab center for teenagers. They are looking into this and will get back to me. I will let you know.

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herehere2
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7. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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   Ok so I had a name change sence that but, my sister is still doin it... She is on international and a cupple of other places in the bay! She took her ad off of cl and rb and backpage!! I thretened to send her to juvie and turn her pimp in even tho she didn't believe me cuz she says I woulda turned in my exs when I was younger! But now everyone is telling me they see her out there! So if you r a girl who happens to go down the track everyone in a wile and won't try to pimp her! Inbox me with your email and I will send you a picture so you can call me if u see her please!!!!!!! Please help !!!!!

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77kayla77
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10 posts		 07-Jul-10, 05:32 PM (PST)
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8. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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*kayla*Luv*

hey i read your response! i do some walking myself and i provider on rb and backpage. just a lil advice you have to be her friend dont forces yourself on her that will push her further, listen dont talk back, and if you turn her 'pimp' in thats only going to make things worse, send me the pic and i'll let you know if ive seen her, and where!

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sexlovemagic
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140 posts		 06-Aug-10, 07:37 PM (PST)
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9. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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Expose her to the "dark/down" side of the game, Stories, Videos, etc, If none of that works try Children of the night in LA, Its a GREAT program my (at the time) 14 year old sister went there and it changed her life/ways, She is 16 now (working graduating and is in job corps)

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PrettyLeila
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58 posts		 05-Apr-11, 11:01 PM (PST)
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17. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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Gee,
This is a tough spot to be in. Hope your sis keeps safe.

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creamy_channel
Member since 31-Dec-09
62 posts		 31-Aug-10, 10:31 AM (PST)
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10. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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   SAGE
*STANDING
*AGAINST
*GLOBAL
*EXPLOTATION

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StacieStackz88
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55 posts		 25-Jan-11, 07:34 PM (PST)
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11. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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   There is a place called children of the night it's based out of la but they specialize in young working girls I have a cousin who is there now she went through pretty much the same story when she was 15 now she's grown and doin great no longer an escort and is in collage im so proud of her it's the best option beats a group home for sure. My prayers are with you really look into this place did wonders for my cousin and it's what they do.

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WILLOW6
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24 posts		 02-Feb-11, 08:56 PM (PST)
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12. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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I would have never considered doing some thing like that at that age !

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FableGrey
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544 posts		 02-Mar-11, 01:30 PM (PST)
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13. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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Oh man, Ill pray hard for her sweetie, God Bless you for caring!

"An open mind is a terrible thing to waste"

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summerrayne
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6589 posts		 09-May-11, 00:55 AM (PST)
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21. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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My prayers going out to her also.

I hope you are able to turn her toward one of these great programs that can help her!

It's always Summer at My Place!

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ashleysuxxx2011
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247 posts		 13-Mar-11, 11:54 PM (PST)
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14. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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   My prayers go out to you and her, god bless u both, Hopefully she is reached before she becomes the unreachable

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MavenFae
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1594 posts		 15-Mar-11, 10:02 AM (PST)
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15. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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Check out http://www.shaktirising.org/. They have a branch in the East Bay, and I am sure that the coordinator will do everything she can to help you, and be aware of additional resources. Here is her info:

Leah Guthridge Caron
510-882-9752 cell
leah@shaktirising.org
www.shaktirising.org

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kellyinmarin
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16. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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What about young girls that want to work and are mature enough to do so. When I was 15 I almost got turned out and you know what I kind of wanted to. I'm glad however that that didn't happen because it was not with the right sort of people. If I had met the right people I would have emotionally been fine and could have made things happen earlier for myself. Some girls don't have many other options available to them to earn money to better themselves, pay for education, drivers school, etc. NOW I'm NOT saying that it is ok for her, I don't know her but I can tell you that the pimp part is bad bad news. It just made me think.

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ErikaValentine
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321 posts		 11-Apr-11, 07:56 AM (PST)
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19. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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She's fifteen, she's not even fully emotionally developed so how can she
be "mature" enough to work?


Girls easy on the eyes are never easy on the heart

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Simone_Wilde
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364 posts		 12-Apr-11, 09:57 AM (PST)
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20. "RE: 16 yr old escort"
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   Most eighteen year olds aren't fully emotionally developed either. Everyone develops at their own pace but unfortunately the line has to be drawn somewhere. I wish that legal majority were determined on an individual basis. Until then, the especially-immature will always be vulnerable and the especially-mature will be held back from their potential.

I was absolutely mature enough to vote, drink, make medical decisions, live on my own, etc. by the time I was 16. I started escorting at 17 and have zero regrets. I handled it better than plenty of 30-year-old newbies do.

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