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ebony_princess101
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"Kissing or no Kissing......"
 
I have been thinking about the whole kissing thing during my sessions. I have stopped doing this with some of my clients mainly because of their lack of good hygeine. That and I was always worried about catching something. I always make sure I do a quick check to see if there are any bumps etc. But still is it possible to get herpes or anything. I use condoms for everything else so Im safe there but im not really sure how you can catch herpes. it makes me paranoid. Ive heard that you can still catch it even if there arent any bumps on their lips at the time. Im 100% disease free and would like to keep it that way. so should i just not kiss at all or is is kinda impossible to get anything from kissing?

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exoticmeeshell
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1. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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   i feel the same way about that and DATY.. RB guys always make a big deal about "gfe" so i tell them "light gfe" but im always worried about catching diseases and if they have good hygiene so im not sure if its even worth it... i wish they would understand and see OUR point of view!! its for their safety as well...

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ebony_princess101
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2. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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Yea i agree. I dont think they really care cause their probably only kissing a few people. They dont understand that we see multiple people every day!!! I do the light gfe also. its kinda pointless to say that or put it in my add. Even when the guy gets here I always say "LIGHT" gfe. but the still try to shove their tongue down my throat.EWWWWWWW!! it annoys me.....


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AlexxiaAzza
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3. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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Yeah, sticking their tongue down your throat.... I hate that. When I first started working about 5 years ago, I was new and unsure what should or shouldn't be on the menu. I've learned some effective techniques since then. I don't say I'm gfe anymore, unless they ask. Some clients assume your gfe during their session, but most clients are very respectful. If you’re not into the kissing thing try to keep your distance from their mouth.

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Farrah88
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4. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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Your gals are giving me the heebee geebees..

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MCares
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5. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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Thanks to my senior year of high school where we had to tech the juniors all about safe sex I know that it is fairly easy to catch the following while kissing:
-Hepatitis
-Cold and Flu viruses
-Herpes ( any of the 3 normal strands)
-"mono" thats why its called the kissing disease and yes its much more serious than it sounds
-Trechial Yeast infections
- PLus a few others that it is too late to think of...

I say pass on all that kissing nonsense. I just started deep frenching my BF of 5 years lol

Because he bought a water pick!hehe

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pinkparadise
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6. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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   JUST SAY NO TO GFE!!
IF YOU ARE WORKING I AM SURE YOU MAY HAVE CHILDREN OR WANT THEM SOMEDAY...

REFUSE TO PUT YOURSELVES IN DANGER FOR AN EXTRA $100


What You Can Get if Your Partner is Infected KNOWN RISKS POSSIBLE RISKS UNKNOWN
Performing oral sex on a man Chlamydia
Gonorrhea
Hepatitis A*
Herpes (RARE)
HPV (warts)
Shigella*
Syphilis
Hepatitis B
HIV**
Hepatitis C

Performing oral sex on a woman Herpes (RARE)
none HPV (warts)

Receiving oral sex - man Chlamydia
Gonorrhea
NGU
Herpes
Syphilis
none HPV (warts)

Receiving oral sex - woman Herpes
none HPV (warts)

Anal sex - top Chlamydia
Crabs/Scabies
Gonorrhea
Hepatitis B
Herpes
HIV
HPV (warts)
NGU
Syphilis
none Hepatitis C

Anal sex - bottom Chlamydia
Crabs/Scabies
Gonorrhea
Hepatitis B
Herpes
HIV ***
HPV (warts)
Syphilis
none Hepatitis C

Vaginal sex - man Chlamydia
Crabs/Scabies
Gonorrhea
Hepatitis B
Herpes
HIV
HPV (warts)
NGU
Syphilis
Trichomoniasis
none Hepatitis C

Vaginal sex - woman Chlamydia
Crabs/Scabies
Gonorrhea
Hepatitis B
Herpes
HIV
HPV (warts)
Syphilis
Trichomoniasis
none Hepatitis C

Oral-anal Sex Amebiasis
Cryptosporidium
Giardia
Hepatitis A
Shigella
_________________________
Pink Paradise
pinkpara

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MCares
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7. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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Thank you pink, couldnt have made a better list myself

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Farrah88
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8. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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HOLY SHIT THAT IS A LOT OF FUNKY STUFF.....

Some nasty ass stuff out there.............Vaginal sex you can get crabs ewwwwwwww
I only like to eat crabs.......

Man funky funky stuff

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EastBayRose
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9. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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   Just to clear a few things up about that list - I assume most of those diseases are caught through having unprotected sex. Hepatitis C is only caught through blood to blood contact so it should be removed from most of those lists.

xoxo, Retro Rose

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MCares
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10. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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if you use a condom you can still get a few of those!

herpes, genital warts, crabs,scabies,mono, hep...condom or not...they can getcha


just be carefull all of those except mono have alot of visual symptoms. Pay attention, leave the lights on!

hep...is a hard one but can be spotted..yellowing of the skin and whites of eyes...but that also can be drugs or tobacco

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Quintessance
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22. "You can get HPV, Throat cancer no joke"
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   LAST EDITED ON 25-Jun-11 AT 04:59 PM (PST)
 
http://www.zimbio.com/Oropharyngeal+Cancer/articles/19/French+kissing+ups+risk+oral+HPV+infection


http://children.webmd.com/vaccines/news/20110623/can-hpv-vaccine-stop-throat-cancer

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sweetnewnikkilove
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23. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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   Kissing...ew

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softspokensweetie
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19. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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I totally agree with u girly!!! I agree with u on everything u mentioned here

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Veee
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11. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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   I HAVE A QUESTION LADIES - IN REGARDS TO THIS TOPIC!!

I was listening to some discussion on the radio about a study of herpes & a woman reported having contracted HERPES on her BREASTS!

I dont believe everything I hear, but this definitely made me raise my eyebrow & wonder if that is in fact possible. I am aware of oral contact & catching it that way .. but on the skin? Seriously?

I dont kiss any of my clients but I do allow some to lightly kiss the breasts ... so this scared me ...

Anyone know if this is true??

Thanks!

~Vee

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kellyinmarin
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12. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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LAST EDITED ON 24-Sep-08 AT 08:20 AM (PST)
 
There should never be an exchange of body fluids, ever.
It's unprofessional.

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MCares
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13. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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I second that

also...herpes are always on your skin. duh =P

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MsVeronicaM
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16. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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   I have a friend I was an SW with and she caught herpes on her finger tips...Weird but very true I seen it with my own two eyes...Its called herptic whitlow...You can look it up...Not sure if thats how it is spelled but thats what it is called...YIKES...
MsVeronicaM

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AmazingAurelia
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18. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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Herpes on her breasts? OMG get out of here with that crap. She probably had shingles... which is chicken pox basically. When we catch chicken pox the virus never leaves your body it just goes to sleep for awhile. But in some cases it will wake up and spread again through your body and pop up on nerve endings. The bumps look just like Herpes and the nickname for them is Herpes Zosters. They blister with water, then scab up, itch like crazy, etc. It is the adult chicken pox and is actually not contagious at all even with open blisters. I know because I have had adult chicken pox happen to me about 2 years ago under my arm pit and around my breast.

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Sexy_Seychelle
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14. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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   SEYCHELLE (Say-Shell)Please excuse me on this first time replying, but i just had to. I know that is what these men come to see us for(what they don't get @home) but thaqt doesn't mean we do Everything, LOL. I too prefer Lght GFE. Now to a Big Topic. I have a problem with to many wanting to DATY, that is fine, but i am getting aa few too may UTI's, now have you ever used saran wrap?? Now stop laughing, it really does feel good too. it causes heat and more suction, UUUMMMMMMM think of that Girl. Let me knw what you think..

Seychelle

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DIAMONDDOLLS
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15. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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   Diamond Doll

The first time I whipped out the Saran Wrap I got the strangest look, now I don't care. Saran it or leave it alone.

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rachelsonoma1
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17. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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   Saran wrap is handy for protected oral sex performed on a woman, or ass worship for that matter. Another precaution is a latex dam. I got mine at sheerglydedams.com. I've seen them at Spice, a sensuality boutique in Rohnert Park. They are a thin sheet of latex, about as big as two of your hands. I like that each one comes in its own bag, handy for disposing of it when you're done. Safety is sexy!

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TheMassageLady
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20. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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LAST EDITED ON 20-Jan-11 AT 09:46 AM (PST)
 
A FBSM AND A REAL MASSAGE IS WHAT I DO..

YES PLASTIC WRAP IS THE WAY.....AND ALWAYS HANDY....AND BE CAREFUL

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StacieStackz88
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21. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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   shyshell my friend told me about these things call dental dam I was told(never used them or seen one I"M NONGFE FOR SURE) that its something like using wrap but its cut to fit and it suctions while sitcking It's supposed to be alot better as in contouring your the shape of your nana... She also told me to buy them at the sex store I have not ran across one of these yet but with all these nasty's out there who ask about daty I've been thinking about still a lil scared and have not tried it yet

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banaweste
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24. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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You can get many things from kissing.
Bana

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handswithlight
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25. "RE: Kissing or no Kissing......"
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There are different strains of herpes 1 that you can catch. Also, HPV causes throat cancers. DO NOT KISS YOUR CLIENTS. Do not let the go down on you. Go down on them only covered! Have no exchange of fluids at all. This includes kissing!

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