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Penelope4u23
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4 posts		 02-Sep-10, 11:20 PM (PST)
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"i need advice about stalkers"
 
   i have 2 different stalkers who found me on redbook. one texts me every time i post myself up on redbook, i never saw him before at all because hes in san diego and i get the creepy vibe from him. but he wont stop texting me, and i text back saying stop texting me and he keeps texting.
and the other one calls and asks questions forever and never sets anything up. i dont even answer his questions anyway. he wastes my time on the phone and wont stop calling. even when im not working, he calls. both wont take no for an answer. the one who calls is a mexican male and ive seen a mexican male following me around town a few times.
do i try to get a restraining order? if i do theyre just going to tell the police they found me on redbook, right? or do i take the law into my own hands? should i just stalk the stalker and send the texter relentless texts? do theese guys really have no life at all? i dont know what to do. im so irritated by this. they waste all my time and energy and make it difficult for me to take calls from other people.

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candycoated_pleasure
Member since 4-Jul-10
782 posts		 07-Sep-10, 00:27 AM (PST)
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1. "RE: i need advice about stalkers"
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DON'T ANSWER THEIR CALLS. SAVE THEM IN YOUR PHONE
AS NO GO, OR NEGATIVE, DONT ANSWER THERE CALLS WHATSOEVER.. and don't get a restraining order, what you need a restraining order for?

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NaomiHarris
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468 posts		 08-Sep-10, 07:11 PM (PST)
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2. "RE: i need advice about stalkers"
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Get google voice or ringcentral you can block numbers. Don't send or respond to txts, it is a huge time suck in my opinion. Needy guys/Stalkers/Creeps love txt messaging.

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SexyRedNHeels
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3434 posts		 12-Sep-10, 08:23 PM (PST)
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3. "RE: i need advice about stalkers"
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It doesn't always work...but it's a start.
Tami xoxo

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EmilyLark
Member since 17-May-10
77 posts		 13-Sep-10, 09:57 AM (PST)
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4. "RE: i need advice about stalkers"
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If they won't take no for an answer, don't give them an answer at all. Guys like this are addicted to your attention, so don't give them any and they will eventually get it out of their system. Every time you give them anything (ANY response) you have to start the stalker rehab clock all over again.

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JASMIN3
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56 posts		 22-Sep-10, 11:09 PM (PST)
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5. "RE: i need advice about stalkers"
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Sometimes if you ignore them they can take drastic measures to get your attention...be safe.

KISSES...

JASIE

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Penelope4u23
Member since 22-Jun-10
4 posts		 22-Sep-10, 11:44 PM (PST)
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6. "RE: i need advice about stalkers"
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   thank you everyone. i have been ignoring them and they went away.

now i have a new problem.

lately, there has been a guy who calls and tries to set up 15 minute appointments with me at the hot tubs on van ness for 50 bucks.
i do not do this.
i charge hourly and way more than hes offering. i dont have an incall space, and only agree to meet them at hotels. i told this guy this over and over.
finally, today, i said look, im not going to see you, im refusing to ever see you under any circumstance, please stop calling me. then he started sending me texts harassing me, calling me names, saying hes going to write a bad review about me, etc.
he hasn't ever met with me, or had an appointment with me, how could he write a bad review? because i said no? because i dont want to see him?
does his bad review count if its all lies? will it make me look bad?


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summerrayne
Member since 27-Apr-09
5263 posts		 27-Sep-10, 05:49 PM (PST)
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7. "RE: i need advice about stalkers"
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He's an ass.

I only get the "How much for just a blowjob?" question about once a month.

I do NOT want to be treated like a cum dumpster. I don't like sessioning with guys who don't care about putting in the energy to create a connection with me.

Sorry this is happening to you.

If you see a negative review pop up for someone you didn't see - just alert it and explain your side of the story.

Hopefully, it will get deleted!

It's always Summer at my place! xoxo

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africanmilk
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510 posts		 29-Sep-10, 12:40 PM (PST)
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8. "RE: i need advice about stalkers"
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Fake reviews can be disputed. You must also be careful what you write on these boards, as the men can read them. Perhaps someone else read you post, and decided to stalk you, of the same person changed numbers or what not. Simply ignore. Or refer them to someone else in thier price range. When you say stuff like "please stop calling" it makes them believe that they have some sort of power over your emotions, and this is why you are being bothered. Simply hang up, or save their number so you know not to answer next time. I know from experience.

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summerrayne
Member since 27-Apr-09
5263 posts		 07-Oct-10, 06:05 PM (PST)
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9. "RE: i need advice about stalkers"
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LAST EDITED ON 07-Oct-10 AT 06:10 PM (PST)
 
Here's another idea, Sugar...

I have one jerk that texts and calls from different numbers asking for anal. He probably has some Google-thing where he can change his number whenever he feels like it. However, I know who he is.

He knows I've never offered anal sex and never will.

I know who the creep is.

I know his voice and his manner of messaging.

He tried to force anal on me ONCE and I nearly sent him to the fucking hospital.

I knocked the wind out of him with a spear-hand thrust to the Adam's apple and he ended up hugging me like a weirdo afterward.

I didn't know about PB then.

Luckily, he's listed in our blacklist now so other providers don't have to go through what I did.

I had to take two weeks off after that incident (I was so upset afterward).

Here's my advice:

Start flirting with your stalkers.

No. Seriously. Do it.

Offer them free outcalls.

When you get their addresses - use the information to file restraining orders against them.

Mark their numbers and never answer their calls/texts again.


It's always Summer at my place! xoxo

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AlyssaRose
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2214 posts		 13-Oct-10, 08:33 PM (PST)
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10. "RE: i need advice about stalkers"
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I post jackass numbers on sites like CL M4M section. It works, they leave me alone after their phone blows up with a bunch of guys looking to get sucked lol..

~Have you tried the Alyssa.Rose.Experience?!~

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MsVeronicaM
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282 posts		 24-Oct-10, 05:16 PM (PST)
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11. "RE: i need advice about stalkers"
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   Rose you have the best idea yet...I loved it...LMAO...Very good I may use that one...

BBWMsVeronicaM

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billydetroit
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3912 posts		 02-Nov-10, 06:22 AM (PST)
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12. "RE: i need advice about stalkers"
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BLONDEBARBIEJLM
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749 posts		 03-Nov-10, 01:14 AM (PST)
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13. "RE: i need advice about stalkers"
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   ANY sort of response is adding fuel to the fire. Even just your explanation alone of why you will not see them. Every single time I get a text or call and they are offensive I immeadeatly program them in my phone under bitch and the number of the month they called. So a guy who called in January would be programmed under bitch1 and a December caller would be programmed under bitch12.

The reason I number them is because when the month is up, I take all my new little bitches and store them in my email, so if i lose my fon I have them backed up no matter what.

If they catch you off guard with a different number, to make the situation less confrontational I say something like "Oh I'm sorry I'm in a diner with my friends its really loud in here I will call you back" CLICK, HANG UP ON THAT ASS AND RESTORE THE NUMBER UNDER BEEEEYATCH

I got so many bitches in my phone I'm running outta room LOL.

being bad is good for your health

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frenchy69
Member since 12-Oct-09
29 posts		 30-Jan-11, 04:04 PM (PST)
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14. "RE: i need advice about stalkers"
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LAST EDITED ON 30-Jan-11 AT 04:14 PM (PST)
 
You don't hold still long enough for anyone to stalk you Penelope. LOL.
MAYBE it's the wiggle in your walk.
And the giggle in your talk.
Or the fucken ad on THE WORLD WIDE WEB!
JUST SAYING.;)~

P.s. buy mace

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Maddieadmin
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6840 posts		 31-Jan-11, 09:50 AM (PST)
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15. "RE: i need advice about stalkers"
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The very best response that I have found for those who I have no desire to spend time with is a simple "No thank you." It is direct, polite and there really isn't much nastiness that they can say back to that. A firm polite no is much more effective than telling them to stop texting you because that is still engaging in conversation with them. Saying No thank you seems to be a bit more clear to them and it usually works like a charm.


xoxo,
Maddie

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