Okay, me and my bf have been together for 2 years. Were soon to be 3 years. No he doesn't know what I do, nor do I hope he finds out. He is in the refinery business and when he travels I work. But when he doesn't travel Im out home. So I have one phone for business and one phone for family. Have to be discreet. We are not married, I do have 2 kids, none are his though. My kids love him, and he adores my daughter and son. Now lately I have been feeling like we don't have that type of connection that we had in the 1st year. I feel like our realtionship is distance, and the only reason Im saying this is because when we are around eachother, at home, or in the car driving to go somewhere, he is known stop texting on his phone. I act like I don't see it, but when I go to ask him about it, he always changes the subject..

Then just a week ago, he got a call like at 10:00 at night, and we were laying in bed watching t.v. Usually if he gets a phone call, he will answer his phone right next to me. He ended up walking outside the room, and going in the backyard to talk.

When he came in the room, I asked if everything was okay, and he was like yeah. So I let that slide again.

One night I ended up confronting him and asking if there was another girl, and he said to me, are you serious, why would I think that. So I told him.. Going outside to speak to someone, and texting (like I never see what your doing). Again he wants to switch the subjects fast.

Deep down in my heart, I sometimes feel like there might be another someone, but sometimes he says things that make me look like maybe, Im just parynoid, or whatever.

I need real ladies advice, and sum serious conclusions on what you think might be going on, or if you think Im just jumping to conclusions.

Thanks so much for listening!
Athena

Sex Is Like Air, You can't Live without it!

If you are suspicious, its probably your intuition telling you something. Most men do stray and cheat, because that is what they do. I had a similar situation, where I was very suspicious that something was not right with my at the time b/f so what do you think I did?

For a long time, I did not check his phone, and just this past weekend I did it, since he was stupid enough to leave it at my house.

Oooh and what did I find! Text msgs between him and other girls (escorts) making dates and going to see them. Late night phone calls to other escorts. I basically took all of his stuff from my home, and dropped it right in his driveway. Have not heard from him and don't want to!

So, once again, if you are suspicious, then by all means check it out and hopefully you will get your satisfaction either way. Good Luck!

Your secret GFE

The Goddess Athena
~ Always funny to see someone with the same name as myself.

Trust your gut. Dont take what some of the women on this post have responded with either, to each is own. How you choose to live your life is your choice. If I were you, I would find some solid evidence. He's a man, hes bound to slip up somehow if he really is cheating. If youre not the snooping type,then confront him. If he cant explain himself well enough or convince you hes being truthful, then maybe its time you do some soul searching & decide whether you trust him. Hiding things from your S.O. is risky but I understand why he doesnt know what you do.

Good luck with your situation. Whatever the outcome is, youll be okay!

XO