If they only knew how much we sacrafice in order to be successful in this business...

It's always Summer at my place! xoxo

I've also limited myself to three clients a day now.

I was taking up to six at times and starting to suffer from serious burnout.

I took nearly three weeks off to recharge my batteries, change up my ad and intake procedures; I feel better already!

It's always Summer at my place! xoxo

Here's my usual reply...

A good client does not haggle or negotiate. An escort’s rates are her rates. Period. If he wants a better deal, he can become a regular client and try to negotiate from there (with a better chance of success) or he searches for someone within his financial range.

A considerate client would not want to be indelicate and offend the very companion they are seeking an intimate encounter with. Once there is an attempt to negotiate there is a sort of win/lose tone created and the client will not have made a good impression.

All escorts are luxury items, no matter what they actually charge. A paid companion is not a basic necessity for life. Good clients recognize payment for what it is – a premium for an out-of-the-ordinary personal experience.

Trying to shop escorts like you would for the lowest price on a set of tires is just tacky!

End soapbox!

QB

I agree with your polite approach. If the question was posed in a polite tone of voice, there is no reason to be anything other than polite back to him. Offering to help a bit by directing them to the rd ad section is a stroke of brilliance. It makes him depend on you for information. This is a good sales tactic. Make the potential client understand that you are a resource. Possibly, he will be willing to meet any and all of your demands once he is convinced that only you can meet his needs. Of course he might really need that low price and you won't ever book with him. At least you learned something in a short amount of time.

I had someone last week book an hour STRICTLY therapeutic massage for $80 with the regular $20 discount for pre-booking.

Not only did he stay over an hour - he practically tried to ass-rape me, I had to threaten to f*** him up if he tried continuing to push my boundaries and the whole session upset me for DAYS.

I don't offer strictly therapeutic CMT massage on here anymore.

I only take my regular, CMT-friends, dress in a v-neck t-shirt, shorts, and never "cross-sell."

Advertising 100% therapeutic massage on here was a bad idea.

I figured out QUICK that there will always be jackholes that want everything-but-the-kitchen-sink for next-to-nothing.

Go to an AMP or RAMP - you may get lucky - you might not.

Drive down your local "stroll" and take your chances (just don't try and take 'em HERE).

That pepper spray I keep in my massage studio won't feel too good in your pee-hole and in your eyes!

Can you tell I'm getting "burnt out?" lol

Kisses and hugs from my family help a lot.

Having more than enough in the bank accounts helps alot.

I gotta hit the sack and see my regulars tomorrow.

A day full of our experiences will surely lift my spirits!

It's always Summer at my place! xoxo