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MprettyKitty
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"Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps?"
 
I have to know what the big fuss is all about...I'm tired of reading these ads and all these girls putting down pimps because I know a lot of pimps some of them I'm even related to not saying there all good but I know for a fact their not all bad either and there are so many stereotypes on men. What about the girls who already where working girls and mess with guys that's not all about what they girl make...what about the couples that both bring something to the table??

I do have a boyfren and we both share our money I give to him and he gives to me...he not always hanging around my room though sweating me for money he has his own hustle but he does get money 4rm a few other providers too but his never mistreated any of us no beating, and putting us down...so in this case is it bad to have a "Pimp"? Some days I make no money his the one who fills it in with his own money for room/food/transportation etc,we throw pleasure parties,lingerie parties,go out and all of us lead good lifestyles together soooo

So my question is...Is it bad to have a I guess semi-pimp who's not just worried what you can do for him...And would consider a pimp if he was a good guy who helped you with things finding new places, showing you the ropes, and not aggressive or hurtful towards??

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Jaliya_Banxx
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1. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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I too, have seen plenty of posts regarding PIMPs and the negativity based around it as well as people's perception..Same with comments about Street Walkers.. I don't have a problem with any of it because it's not for me to judge another's situation or say what's right or wrong.

But I have known a few PIMPs and wanna-be PIMPs with very different styles on how they treat their ladies. Overall, that's between the parties involved but that's not for me. I did have a cool ass Wifey though who showed me the ropes and really helped me get on my feet because I had no clue of what I was getting into..

She would help a lot of girls & even let them stay w/her to get $$ up. She was a solid chick that had a lot of knowledge with this business. Very easy to talk to and hang with when others didn't understand or had a clue about what I was going thru we still talk from time to time..

So in response to your question, that's for you to decide. I guess with me, I felt more comfortable around another female.


Jaliya <3

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MprettyKitty
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2. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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Well I guess I should have put men & woman because you don't have to be a man to be a pimp but thanks for your in put...

No Other Can Give The HigH quality action like me

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Shannonstar18
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3. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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   I didn't understand the whole pimp-madam thing when I first started but basically if a woman wants to be with one of her own free will and she can is free to leave anytime then that is her right. I learned a lot of knowledge from a retired madam and I have a friend who is a drug counselor who was a crackhead and a wino. My friends and I when we were in high school used to send this guy into the liquor store to buy us liquor and cheap wine because we were young. We would buy him a bottle of cheap wine. I didn't know then he was a washed up ex-pimp but he used to school us about finishing high school and not to ever use hard drugs. Plus he said how important it was if we were having sex to use condoms for everything lol. When I ran into him last year (I hadn't seen him in over 5 years) I treated him to lunch and found out he got sober, became a drug counselor, had gotten into the Church and got married. When I told him I was working he told me a about his past as a pimp. He said I should always use condoms no bareback or kissing, go to college and save my money. The ex-madam told me the same thing. I say whether you are with a pimp or not or working for a madam or not or you are a independent remember the knowledge is priceless you can learn from some of these people.

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PrincessCupcake
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4. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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Well said shannon!

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BLONDEBARBIEJLM
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5. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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   LAST EDITED ON 18-May-10 AT 03:50 PM (PST)
 
Some people like the lifestyle, some it may not be for you. If there are 5 girls who want to pay a dude and enjoy sharing him and having a lifestyle with him and his other girls and it works for you and you are a grown woman and like that type of life....thats on you. If that is you....I would like to see you ten years later...did it work?? Do you still love eachother after the game?? Any kids together, did you raise your kids in a happy home with no drama?? I have yet to meet anyone with a pimp that has gone long and strong past ten years and happy...really happy. If a man really loves you...he would want you to have something in life after this game...a business. Something other then this. i have met several girl in my years in this game who pay a pimp for 6 months, a year, then the go solo, then they get a pimp again...all those years you paid how many dudes and what do you have to show for it??? You get a baby phat sweatsuit and get to live out of a suitcase in a hotel.

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Shannonstar18
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6. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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   From what I have observed most of these guys who claim to be pimps are not pimps but guys who sold drugs and thugs who decided pimping a hooker is easier for them. But they're are fake have no game and have nothing to offer for the most part. A authentic one is rare nowadays. Most of the real players most of us would not get a shot at like Dennis Hof, Hugh Hefner and Larry Flynt they are some of the real movers and shakers in the biz not these sneaker wearing baggy jean wearing morons and freeloaders.

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7. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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Actually there is only one Pimp that I really admire from this day and most ladies would think so too: Sugar Free. Lol. No he was a real pimp, he had game and hoes, and most people learn his game and info from his songs, because trust me girls, I still be knockin his music.. LOL

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athenagivings
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8. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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I have a PIMP and I love him!

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Shannonstar18
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9. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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   LAST EDITED ON 03-Jun-10 AT 09:20 PM (PST)
 
Athenagivings Quote:>"I have a PIMP and I love him!"

LMAO To each his own you could have been truthful from the beginning instead of making up all these stories. The truth will set you free!

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athenagivings
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10. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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S H A N N O N * S T A R * 1 8:
Thanks baby, you have changed my life around.. LMFAO

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katiesparks
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11. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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VixxenBlonde

Im sorry but I hate to ask this. Why honestly would you want to throw your life away and have a pimp. There are so many other ways for you to deal with your money, you can have an accountant if you make to much and it is hard to handle. But I never did ever understand the pimp thing. I believe in the ol' days, that's what everyone believed, but honestly pimpn' is really a myth. I don't believe in no such good pimp. They treat us ladies like were just things and not real people who have feelings to. If you have a mouth and pussy, you should be able to do everything fine by yourself.

Now I don't want you too look at my crazy for asking this, but do you really think your pimp tells you the truth about things..?
Trust me, I have had pimps text my line before, but I just sit back and laugh, and sometimes, when i get to see the text, i dont even read it no more and just delete it out of my phone.

In this world I believe in escorting, still not sure why it is illegal, but at the same time, I believe you do escorting because you enjoy it, and it helps pay real fast. But to have a pimp>>>Crazy!

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Mylee_Love
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12. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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I love Sugar Free... He is the best RAPPER Man... But alot of these ladies do have pimps and its their decision to wheather they have one or not.. Some actually need them as far as i know... But it is good Being Independent... Ladies Keep your Head up, Everyone Has their Own opions not all ACCEPT it with HAVING A PIMP!!


XOXO

Mylee_Love

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Sweet_Potential
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24. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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   Yes, I agree this too. A lot of ladies are not fortunate enough to decide as an experienced adult to do this. And I believe the minors without loved ones end up with pimps because they do need some 1 (not a pimp necessarily) I just don't understand how they could stay or even make the same decision over and over again. I wonder if it is because they don't meet enough good people in their life to encourage them that they can do it on their own, or what ever they'd like, if they put their mind to it, but for their own happiness and quality of life, not to make your lover, pimp, or manager happy. It's just not healthy. I apologize if I am rambling..

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Sweet_Potential
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23. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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   Ha ha that's right!! I believe that the good ones own businesses, or real estate or are even studying some where away from the ghettos and hotels, not doing a bunch of nothing while waiting on some ladies to make money for them, that they don't even know what to do with it when they get it. The difference, I suppose is responsible ones with positive goals, and yes like Shannon said free loaders, lazy and I will add in lack of ambition.

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Sweet_Potential
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22. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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   YES! I agree, Knowledge, Research, and Experience...

Ashley Love

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AsianCollegeStudent
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13. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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   It depends on the dude... if he REALLy cares for you then he's good, or if he ONLY cares for your money... he ain't right..
Come on get your mind right ladies!!

Its better being INDEPENDENT anyways, because why deal wit a . who knows all your business like that.

Personally, I'm discreet about my shit. Other ladies may be different.

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missAshley123
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14. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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LAST EDITED ON 06-Jun-10 AT 09:11 PM (PST)
 
I think that pimps arent too bad, they have hearts as well as us. They're human just like us all. Men have feelings to wheather they are in a Relationship, Macking, Pimping, Playing their lady, or whatever.

( Not trying to take up for them ), but its what I believe. & Only cause a male "Pimp" told me that.

To be honest the men that try to Knock me or have their " bitch " knock me off __ RB __ irks me. That's the part of the game i dont like.

Boyfriend Pimps, are cool only if they dont be in your pocket. They shouldn't worry about your next date. He's "providing" as well. His mind should be as if what his female do is a job - Everything should be 50/50

Pimps, are hard to deal with im sure. Being from where im from they call 2010 "Hoe-10". They speak on pimping all the time. Choosing-Fee's, Leaving-Fee's - shit Pimps have to many fee's you ladies have to pay LMAO. I see why alot of ladies remain Independent. I dont like disrespectful men, nor liars, or gold-diggers / Male or Female. Dont try & knock me cause you see a profit. I'd rather mess with a Female Provider rather then a Female Pimp or Male Pimp.

It's females who's Pimp did them wrong, beats them, kicks them out, take all their money & dont give a fuck about them. They know it, yet they steady run back. Speak on that too. Ladies you have the P-ssy Power, the mind, & the game to be an Independent Provider. What do you need a Pimp for ? Inspiratio? Motivation? or Safety? lol ... idk

I know the game, since I was a teen. Been around Pimps, etc .. I learned the ropes on my own, yes I've had a dude giving me more knowledge. He cared about my safety, didnt ask for a penny ( unless rent was due ), & helped me get on my feet. I enjoy what I do Independently & make decent enough money Independently, better then my old job - 12$ an hour. Having a Pimp is like working at UPS - 6 something an hour for the first 3 months due to union Fee's. aha I refuse , wait not even Pimp's take all the money im sure.

Btw Shoutout to all the Ladies on RB who is getting their money & saving for themselves with a boyfriend, boyfriend pimp or with a pimp.

Love Ashley

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15. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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LAST EDITED ON 07-Jun-10 AT 00:16 AM (PST)
 
I also have been around pimps my whole entire life, and I think that is because where I was born and raised, and my family cousins and everyone were in some kind of hustle.

But at the same time, I do feel bad for the ladies that choose to deal with the wrong type of pimps, just because they are so worried about your money, and not you. Ive had gf's that had pimps and it ended out really ugly. Push come to shove, when it was that time of month for them, they weren't making enough for their "pimp" and he couldn't even buy a thing of tampons for the gal. (sad I know)

But I have some lady friends that been in the business for a while that have pimps, and they aren't about the money. They take care of the ladies and don't care if days are slow they understand. They built a connection, I guess you can say.

But for myself, I never believed in having a pimp because I know how to do everything by myself. I have a pu_ssy I can twark, I have a mouth I can do many things with, and I know how to have fun but always be safe at the same time.

I guess you can say that this was meant for me.. Being a professional call girl, but I will never in my life deal with a pimp.

Hearing things and watching t.v. Its sad how dirty pimps will do a gal. Yes we are all human beings, but at the same time I don't think having a pimp handle me, or handle my funds, or feeling like Im a hostage, where I have to call them every second of the day when I leave the room, I could handle.

Im a grown ass woman and I can make my own decisions, and I believe I have. Yeah, Ocassionally I'll talk with my gf's but not all the time now, because I know they have pimps, and I really don't want to be in that cross-over dealing with her drama, and being caught in the middle, so what Im trying to say, I don't judge my gf's for having a pimp, but when we do hang out, Im more on my head and toes, because I don't like to surround myself with drama.

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MelyssaJames08
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16. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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   Any man that claims to be a pimp and can't buy a box of tampons or some sea sponges so that his girl can work is nothing but a wannabe half a quarter teaspoon of a pimp...many real pimps put their girls on a pedastal just because they do understand that, that woman is their whole operation...That's just IMO though. I agree with many of the other ladies, I am in no position to judge anyone for their lifestyle. I have made many mistakes and fallen in the hands of bad people, I have just taken all the knowledge that I've gathered through the years and ran with it and continue to learn!

Be safe everybody!,

Melyssa

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MprettyKitty
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17. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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LAST EDITED ON 25-Jun-10 AT 08:57 PM (PST)
 
Some of you girls are CRAZY i think...LOl

But to the ones who see the big picture that it depends on the man I respect your mind..

I hate stereotypes

-->So my question is...Is it bad to have a I guess semi-pimp who's not just worried what you can do for him...And would consider a pimp if he was a good guy who helped you with things finding new places, showing you the ropes, and not aggressive or hurtful towards you??

Some of you are going beyond answering the actuall question ate hand

Urs Affectionately Mprettykitty

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MelyssaJames08
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18. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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   Any semi-pimp is a pretend pimp in my opinion. A boyfriend pimp is using the boyfriend role to con you into believeing he's not your pimp.

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21. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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Hello!

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25. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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   LAST EDITED ON 13-Oct-10 AT 01:34 PM (PST)
 
Dito But back to the point msprettykitty, no it's not bad on those circumstances. You look great, and are very happy. If you're making progress, enjoying life and luvin your guy, then no, I don't think it is bad.

Ashley Love

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19. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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LAST EDITED ON 24-Sep-10 AT 02:12 PM (PST)
 
Ask yourself this. Why do you have no money some days? Is he your bank account in which you deposit, and then withdrawal form afterwords? How can you be broke doing this? I think IF a person MUST use a pimp, it should only be temporary, after all, once you've learned how to be managed, you can learn how to manage yourself. Is he giving you something you can't give yourself? if so, keep him.

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20. "RE: Are all pimps are bad or what about a boyfren pimps"
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   that right
MS WET NENEGFE

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