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Alexxxsandra
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01-Sep-09, 03:25 PM (PST)
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"Thinking about dating chicks....advice?"
 
AleXXXsandra Verakuva


Ok so I have always been attracted to girls, infact I realized that I was in love with my ex best friend and didn't even know it until a little after we stopped being friends, Is there a big attitude difference from girls and guys, becaise I get so sick of the whole guy dominate thing, ugh!

Plus I love a hot womans body the curves the smell of women and personality is so much better then guys most of the time, I know I could totally date a girl and fall in love and all that, plus I have this feeling it would be so much more fun!

If I started dating girls I would def. be a lipstick lez because I am not into the butch thing at all.......how do you even know if a hot girl is into girls to its not like theres a sign and most hot girls are straight....... and then I think is there such thing as a relationship between two girls AND a guy!? lol Im dreaming right!?

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sweetest_love
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04-Sep-09, 04:35 PM (PST)
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1. "RE: Thinking about dating chicks....advice?"
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   Well you know I must say there is still the good an bad in any kind of relationship!!! I have been in love with a woman an she broke my heart, same as with a man!!! I am extremely bi so I still run into the issue of liking both men an women ((which can be very confusing at times))) women maybe alittle more!! but I have learned that if things are meant to be it will just happen....also sometimes you have to go out on that limb an be different, if you see something you like don't let it pass you by!!! Lifes to short to feel ashamed of how you feel...worst anyone could say is there not interested. Then move on .......have a beautiful day....kara

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MarvelousMarie
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06-Sep-09, 11:09 AM (PST)
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2. "RE: Thinking about dating chicks....advice?"
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date me baby. lol seriously. me-yow.

I was just gonna post something about having some girl/girl playtime.

Meows and lix,
MarvelousMarie

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Alexxxsandra
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11-Sep-09, 05:11 PM (PST)
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3. "RE: Thinking about dating chicks....advice?"
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AleXXXsandra Verakuva

miss marie.....you are truly beautiful, but I don't know if I can trust an rb girl because I don't fully know your situation but I swear I would date you and treat you like a queen! foot rubs, body rubs and more lol!

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MarvelousMarie
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15-Sep-09, 06:31 AM (PST)
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4. "RE: Thinking about dating chicks....advice?"
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Girl, I don't blame you. Ask around about me. I stopped being friends with RB girls a lil while back now, due to drama...life is goooooood. I don't trust anyone on this site, which is sad in itself, but it is what it is.

We could always just down quad Venti starbucks and play naked Twister too yanno. Or wine. Yeah. Wine.

Meows and lix,
MarvelousMarie

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MelyssaMarie
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21-Sep-09, 03:31 PM (PST)
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5. "RE: Thinking about dating chicks....advice?"
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   >and then I think is there such thing as a relationship between two girls AND a guy!? lol Im dreaming right!?

i've tried it and its hard...I like men and women but its tough when real feelings get involved. I've realized its better to just have fun and live life. It's fun and exciting to have a man and a women with you at the same time, but nothing lasts forever! lol...so have fun while you can and try not to get too attached.

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SexyYana_09
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29-Jun-10, 11:19 PM (PST)
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14. "RE: Thinking about dating chicks....advice?"
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   Hi there sexy it is possible just inbox and let me tell you all about ma.i wont the samething you are looking for ma

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lydialove_09
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05-Oct-09, 04:31 AM (PST)
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6. "RE: Thinking about dating chicks....advice?"
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i was just reading your post alexxandra and I feel the exact same way...i was just recently in a relationship with a girl who was so sexy 2 me. We had a LOT of fun together...what your feeling is totally 100% normal...and a sexy as a matter of fact

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Autumnbreeze
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23-Oct-09, 06:01 AM (PST)
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7. "RE: Thinking about dating chicks....advice?"
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There are good and bad things on both sides of the coin. Guys have some advantages. With 2 girls you seem to have to work a bit harder to keep the sexual motor running, over time. Look up 'lesbian bed death'. I've seen it happen to friends, and had it happen to me.

And the courtship thing can be tricky. Girls flirting with girls looks so similar to girls just trying to make a connection, to bond, to be friends. It can be really hard to tell sometimes if a girl is hitting on you serious, or just playing around. And hard again to go from there to actually getting sexual.

On the plus side, often if she's your close friend, and then there's sex, and it's good sex, and sober sex(drunk first times often lead to awkward), you suddenly have a relationship. All premade. It's really cool that way. Plus, your SO is also your most intimate friend. Often way more in common, more to do together. I personally tend more toward other girls for LTRs. Just me.

3-way relationships are -complicated-. Seriously. Don get me stahted.

Love as thou will.

Gwenyth

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purechocol8
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29-Oct-09, 09:56 AM (PST)
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8. "RE: Thinking about dating chicks....advice?"
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I've been bi for years even married to a woman at one point. There isnt a huge difference other then the sexuality. You will encounter the same issues in a st8 relationship. The relationship that you speak of 2 girls and a guy is the marriage I plan on having.

A husband and a wife and we all are married to each other, we all support each other.

The only thing is you have to find the right man that deserves such a thing. Don't just give that sort of thing to anyman.. Its gonna take a strong one.

Wish you happiness. found a girl u like just ask her if she likes girls.

Kum HARD or GO home, only strong will survive

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summerrayne
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22-Jul-10, 10:30 PM (PST)
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16. "RE: Thinking about dating chicks....advice?"
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I tried dating girls many times in between marriages/relationships with men.

Just my experience - but I think your sexuality is determined not by who you have the ability to fall in BED with - but who you have the ability to fall in LOVE with.

I've loved both - but being in a relationship with a woman just seemed to take a lot more emotional energy than I was willing to part with at the time.

Also the thought of "coming out" to my close friends/family...geez don't I have ENOUGH to deal with already (that was my thought anyway) ?!! lol

I met my best friend two years ago on my bowling league and it's a man.

He's got a low-sex-drive, big heart, is adopting my daughter and has a wonderful spirit; I love him to pieces.

He finishes my sentences and sometimes even knows what I'm thinking without me even SAYING it.

The low-sex-drive part?

Well - I have a lot of fun in my sessions and we don't talk about what happens in them. He doesn't look at my ads. It's kinda like a "don't ask - don't tell environment."

It works for us; we are great partners (I wish I'd met this person years ago before my life was half over)!

I guess whatever makes you happy - as long as you're not hurting anyone - that's all that matters!

Hope you find your bliss!

It's always Summer at my place! xoxo

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QueenBee
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10-Nov-09, 08:08 PM (PST)
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9. "RE: Thinking about dating chicks....advice?"
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   It is possible! I have been with my husband 12yrs but I have always dated women. I am currently married and my girlfriend of 1.5 yrs lives with me too! I love men but I can't live without women either. I guess I have my cake and I'm eaten it too

Once you pop you can't stop!
~~~Carissa

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sexymissvivika
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12-Jan-10, 00:16 AM (PST)
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10. "RE: Thinking about dating chicks....advice?"
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ViViKa burning rubber!
I never had a girl friend but have always been atracted to them and its funny cause i feel the same way call me k 831 901 8701


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TheRedVelvetMatches
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21-Mar-10, 09:45 PM (PST)
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11. "RE: Thinking about dating chicks....advice?"
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Lol. Two girls and a guy is fun, but a relationship that functions properly... probably not. For girls, put yourself out there and give it a try. If you state what you want others may be more enticed to come out too. There are lots of hot ladies out there.

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kimluv32
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22-Mar-10, 02:25 PM (PST)
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12. "RE: Thinking about dating chicks....advice?"
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   my advice to you babe coming froma girl who is married to a woman....its not easy.. woman think with there emotions... some like me can out grow it but most females just are like that its not a bad thing it just complicates things a little so you dont need to jump into a relationship or anything anytime soon.. look around get to know some woman god knows there are so many beautiful woman out there... and then it depends on your type do you want someone who is aggressive or someone who is a femme... i could go on all day but it would be too much haha but if u have anymore questions inbox or text me
***KAYLA_LOVE***

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Mylee_Love
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18-Jun-10, 10:52 PM (PST)
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13. "RE: Thinking about dating chicks....advice?"
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its what you make of it. Depending if you and your partner have an understanding of how the situation is going to be. Then after that I doubt there could be any problems. I think girls are Hot Too!

good Luck!

XOXO

Mylee_Love

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Vanessa_bbadd1
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15. "RE: Thinking about dating chicks....advice?"
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   hello,
I think that the atitudes are all the same when tw people get use to eachother. Or should i say when one person learns someone true colors.


V.Love

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shannonluv
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16-Dec-10, 11:07 AM (PST)
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17. "RE: Thinking about dating chicks....advice?"
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   AleXXXsandra,

I agree with you and many of the women on this thread. I enjoy being with a man but there is nothing compared to how a female makes another female feel in bed, and out in public. And when you have the taste of both worlds (being intimate with both genders) in your personal life, it excites the moment and relationship!

In my past, dated a guy who I met at a coffee shop. In and around that time I also met a female at one of the local bars in Walnut Creek. It took time and patience but once I was intimate with them separately, I knew, I wanted them both at the same time (yes, a threesome). Sure they knew of each other and respected the idea I enjoyed both Men and Women but they never imagined being together in that sense for they've never met or spoken to each other.

So I arranged dinner with both of them and told each of them separately I had a surprise and wouldn't tell them till after. Dinner was arranged at a hotel restaurant in Downtown SF. They weren't aware that both of them were coming. I assumed that they would feel uncomfortable.OMG...It was the opposite! They got along, had similar personalities , which makes sense of why I was attracted to them both. Had an awesome time at dinner. Tons of laughs, humor and sarcasm sincerely. Best night of my life!!;0)!!

They thought it was a splendid surprise to finally meet. But that wasn't the surprise I had in mind. After dinner I sat them both down and explained why we were there at the hotel.

Reaction after the explanation?

They were shocked at first! But okay to the matter. Already had the hotel room. The music, the wine and candles ready. That night Ladies, again, was the best night of my life! Everything we did in that hotel room that night, was amazing!! And have had many encounters after. And whats funny is that both the girl and I only prefer having him as the only male in bed. Never thought of implementing another male counterpart for the fact both us women feel it's too much. Plus my male friend is good at what he does to both of us.

It's been a while since that encounter in the hotel room but the feeling was so incredible that night I still get goose bumps! Don't get me wrong, we've had endless sexual experiences together but what made that night at the hotel so magnificent was that I expected a bad outcome. Plus it was the first threesome for them both. We're all best of friends today and hang out on a regular basis. We're extremely secure with one another.

This shows that having a relationship with both sexes can work! Plus the reactions you get from people in public is priceless!!


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