LAST EDITED ON 14-Jun-09 AT 04:32 PM (PST)
This is such a hard topic for you and many other providers.
When we are independent and looking for a guy, we want one who is understanding of what we do, yet once we fall in love we want a man who doesnt want us escorting. I mean, what kind of a man WOULD want his woman doing this type of thing right? Also, its almost impossible to find someone who will accept what we do.
I have tried dating, and most of the time everything goes downhill once he finds out what I am doing for a living. The guys who say they are okay with it usually end up only in it for themselves, either to use us as sex objects or to try and get some type of money out of us. None are really serious.
Although I do believe there are a small percentage of men who could love a whore, I think its like searching for a needle in a haystack.
YOU AND ONLY YOU can decide what is right for your sittuation. Take the time to listen to him. Is he worth you being broke? Does he make you happy? Do you feel like you could replace him or find someone better? Do you want to? If you have found someone who really, really loves you then you cannot trade that love for any amount of cash. However, if he really loves you wont he understand?
Perhaps if you explain your goals to him in detail. Sit down together and discuss what it is he IS comfortable with... Like say, okay a 6 month goal and you want to save 10,000. and then retire. Or a year. Perhaps he would agree to just let you do massage or domination if he is able to see your ad and trust that you will not be having sex with clients. There has to be a compromise. I think you already know the answer you are seeking. You cannot have love without sacrafice, trust and forgiveness.
I wish you so much luck girl, I know how hard it can be!
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