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cupcakinitbz
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31-Jan-12, 08:53 PM (PST)
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"hobbyist doesn't want to give me references"
 
He said that we have both said incriminating things in our emails and that he will give me his references after we session.


WTH?

Has anyone else had someone that did not want to give them references?

He says he posts on rb under CamaroXXXXX (blocked out in case this isn't allowed), but I tried searching the forums and came up with nothing.

I'm not seeing him because he was very detailed on what would happen during the session and how much he would be giving me, offering more than what was on my ad.

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stuff_of_hottness
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31-Jan-12, 09:07 PM (PST)
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1. "RE: hobbyist doesn't want to give me references"
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   I had that problem. A member inboxed me asking bout services n what not and when it came down 2 phone conversation i asked for one reference and made an exuse saying he doesnt feel comfortable giving out providers contact information and i told him other clients and members didnt have a problem with it. Inbox me cupcake if u want his handle or can we trade for shady handles?

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Miranda_Velocity
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01-Feb-12, 01:38 AM (PST)
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2. "RE: hobbyist doesn't want to give me references"
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   Absurd.
I'm sorry you gals have had to deal with this nonsense.

Most guys are so great about references (& thank you,to the ones who are reading this)!
What's it going to take for the ones who aren't to understand why this simple,basic safe transaction is vital? I really hope that a few years from now girls getting into this biz look back on this nonsense and marvel at "how things used to be". I really,really do. For everyone's sake.

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VictoryGirl
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01-Feb-12, 10:59 AM (PST)
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3. "RE: hobbyist doesn't want to give me references"
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I cannot believe you would let greed for a few extra bucks, to chance a visit by a possible rapist, serial killer, cop, pimp, who knows what, because he won't do a reference.

Put is in your ad, either two provider references or a verifiable work reference and if they say anything, don't explain why you need one. Just say "its in my ad" and too bad for them for not reading that.

You say he was detail-oriented and bribed you. If that isn't a set up I don't know what is. Its obvious he is experienced, so what is he hiding?

NEVER EVER EVER let fear, anxiety or greed cause you to behave in a desperate manner. It takes only ONE CLIENT to harm you permanently.

xoxo, Rose

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VictoryGirl
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01-Feb-12, 11:54 AM (PST)
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4. "Forgot to add..."
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Not to mention he gave you a fake handle...

xoxo, Rose

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summerrayne
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01-Feb-12, 01:42 PM (PST)
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5. "RE: Forgot to add..."
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"Dittos" to what M.V. and V.G. said!

Also - I can research him for you if you inbox me his email address.

It's always Summer at My Place!

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cupcakinitbz
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01-Feb-12, 07:34 PM (PST)
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6. "RE: hobbyist doesn't want to give me references"
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Victory, this is exactly why I decided not to see him.

Especially after the email I just got back from him,


"that's fine, I gave you my address so I don't know how you dont feel safe, but it's ok because I have yours too."


I never gave him an address especially since I didn't even know what city he was from or where we would even meet yet!

He sounds more like someone that could be VERY harmful, or possibly LE.

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SexyAreona08
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01-Feb-12, 08:48 PM (PST)
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7. "RE: hobbyist doesn't want to give me references"
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   LAST EDITED ON 01-Feb-12 AT 08:53 PM (PST)
 
Like today.. I get a text asking for an outcall. So i respond with simple answers......I ask for an address all he will tell me is that its to dublin....im like okay if you want me to come over there I would need an address.....Hes like yea.. i guess I didnt think of that......in my book strike one... so at this point i am asking for a refrence....and of coarse strike two I get no response........ So
I text him again would you still like me to come by, he say's yes of course to dublin....smh.....okay at this point i feeln i am being toyed with and want to end the game so I called......the number was a non-working number. I dnt know how it works to text but I called it was not working so that was my third strike. I let him know I tried to call, and he says "you called me without asking" I need a provider who knows how to be more discreet than this? Like no refrence no address, no phone....how much more discreet can you get.
I dont understand what these guys have goin through there heads sometimes. Do they not believe we take risks a well! Needless to say a way bigger one,than lets say a guy contacting a well reviewed provider...Its madness I tell you!!! Thank goodness I have way more lovely gentleman conntacting me rather than guys just playing silly games.... whooooo i feel better now lol.......

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rachelsonoma
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02-Feb-12, 00:24 AM (PST)
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8. "RE: hobbyist doesn't want to give me references"
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LAST EDITED ON 02-Feb-12 AT 00:25 AM (PST)
 
Cupcake: inbox me. I have some ideas.

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