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TheGildedRose
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"Am I a fat old hag?"
 
LAST EDITED ON 31-Jan-11 AT 06:27 PM (PST)
 
Someone (I think his name rhymes with Goosey) went to the trouble to write a post claiming I am a FAT OLD HAG!!!

Acordingly, I just now took some pics on my webcam to ask you to judge for yourself. In the first pic(s), I added my 2011 calendar for anyone claiming these pics are old.

Thanks for letting my fat ugly self speak!

xoxo, Rose


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MizOlivia
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31-Jan-11, 06:26 PM (PST)
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1. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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I think you are absolutely stunning. Honestly, I do not give out compliments lightly.

I can imagine that having someone make such a statement about you would be very hurtful. I am sure you know that what he has written is untrue, but I would imagine it might deliver a blow to your self confidence.

Obviously, this man is fixated on you for some reason. No one will pay any attention to his childish antics and soon it will all be forgotten.

Consider the source of these comments, a weak and mean spirited individual, and then throw his comments in your mental incinerator. Burn,baby, Burn!


Betty Crocker
never tasted this good...

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TheGildedRose
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31-Jan-11, 06:34 PM (PST)
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2. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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I am so flattered Olivia, I cannot tell you. I do thank you so much! I do not consider myself all that and a bag of chips, but I do feel that I am a far cry from a "fat old hag."

That is a big issue I think we all face in this biz. One minute we are idolized, pampered and worshipped. The next we are savagely taken apart due to some woman hater's agenda OR another provider's jealousy.

It is truly a Schizophrenic way to live! The other thing is, when they call me old, THAT is an insult in America but NOT other countries! I am proud to be an older woman. Why do they think that is a bad thing to say?

xoxo, Rose

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Ddbusty
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31-Jan-11, 06:41 PM (PST)
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3. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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   The poster must be blind as well as a complete idiot.

You are gorgeous! Beautiful face, ravishing red hair, and
an incredibly awesome pair of boobies.

The real guys here are gonna take one look at those pics and
run to their phone.

It's difficult to deal with a hateful individual. You handled
things with class.

You are only as young as you feel. Age should be revered not
ridiculed.

Keep your head held high!

Dee

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TheGildedRose
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4. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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I LOVE YOU LADIES!!!!

xoxo, Rose

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AllegrasEscapades
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17. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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Rose you are beautiful.

Also I liked what you had to say :
The other thing is, when they call me old, THAT is an insult in America but NOT other countries!

This is true. Other cultures do indeed look at aging differently.


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Anniekitty
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31-Jan-11, 11:17 PM (PST)
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11. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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   I think that you are lovely and I am soooooo sick of this "review control" thing! I am up against a problem myself, due an idiot whom I have never even met writing a bad review about me.
Is there no way of having these false reviews removed?

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LaCourtesan01
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31-Jan-11, 09:32 PM (PST)
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5. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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Are you kidding some guy actually said that. You are a rare beauty. I love your style, your grace and over all personality. I know we have never meet in person but I have read your posts.

Don't let some "man" make you second guess your apperance.

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anniegirl
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31-Jan-11, 09:42 PM (PST)
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6. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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No!! Some of these guys are super rude. As we all know. Who ever he is, he is a control freak. Trying to manipulate you with words. Maybe taking every chance he gets to get personally back at whomever rejected him or once made him feel bad about himself. Personally, I had a client weight me once because he thought my ad had an incorrect weight. Of course he tried to play it off in a joking way, but there are a lot of people that "joke" because they are cowards and can't speak directly to people. Anyway a little of subject, but I wasn't lying about my weight Just like you are not a fat old hag.

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MsCHO
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31-Jan-11, 09:50 PM (PST)
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8. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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   LAST EDITED ON 31-Jan-11 AT 09:52 PM (PST)
 
Rose, of course you know as well as all of us you are not old and you are not a hag. Jerk was just trying to get reaction out of you.

You really are raving beauty of Redbook and moreover, you have a class.


edit to add; how could anybody say that you are fat?

this jerk must be into anorexic minors only than!

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CmtFetishes
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31-Jan-11, 09:49 PM (PST)
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7. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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   Absolutely stunning! Perhaps he was describing his skank mother.

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SweetDonatella
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31-Jan-11, 09:59 PM (PST)
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9. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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Looking for others to approve or confirm that you aren't ugly seems a little bit much.

But at any rate, I think you look very pretty and thin in those pictures.

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BLONDEBARBIEJLM
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10. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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   Some of the people we are being judged by are total pigs who would never even have a chance with you in the real world anyways...please. Talk about "fat" and "old"...some of these men are just being nasty because they can't get a girl because they have no swag, no persoanlity, no looks, and are nothings on the inside...it brings them pleasure to talk shit about someone they know dam well they could never even get if the weren't paying.

being bad is good for your health

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Tori_Taylor
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12. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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Hey just read this post and was shocked + stunned! You are a very beautiful lady .I love old hollywood movies and you totally remind me of rita hayworth. Take care sweetie ~~ Tori Taylor

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WILLOW6
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13. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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   I think these guys do it for the shock value to humiliate others to feel power ful not out of control and that makes them feel good usually people who were brought up controlled well just a thery
Girl friend your the bomb and it's not jest your looks it um your heart of gold and at the end of the day isn't that all what we want to curl up with
After along day ,best of luck

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TheQueenBee
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01-Feb-11, 07:34 AM (PST)
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14. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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   Not even close. Ya know what? I AM a fat old hag and I get plenty of loving and tons of attention. It may be cliché but only a dog loves a bone.

Rose, you are have classic beauty, and you should have nothing but swagger with those pin up girl looks.

To all the plump, thick, and juicy women like myself, there are many men who LOVE a voluptuous woman. I've always been plus size, and never been kicked out of bed, sweet! LOL! When you're with a man and sans clothes he's thinking OMG I have a naked women in my bed!!!!!! He's not aware of cellulite, stretch marks, pimples, or weather or not your makeup is perfect. I think we sweat the small stuff, and don't realize men are just not tuned in to such minutia.

Sure there's always some jerk like Howard Stern with his damn laser pointer and criticize and pick apart women. Love to see them in a thong under studio lights with women breaking them down. I bet a man would be crushed under the pressure!

I know when I hold my head high, strut and smile I can own the room. You did the right thing, getting dolled up and telling the world to take notice. Works every time!

Don't let some pinhead steal your thunder. What a worm!

QB

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TheGildedRose
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15. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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LAST EDITED ON 01-Feb-11 AT 08:11 AM (PST)
 
<<Looking for others to approve or confirm that you aren't ugly seems a little bit much.>>

That was not the reason I posted this. It was to show anyone who read that horrible post (it was not a review, it was a post). Hopefully so they could decide for themselves if I am a fat old hag. It is called damage control.

It could be and probably is a coincidence, but since that post has been up, I had a few calls asking if those were really my up-to-date pics. I wanted to come here, among loving women, and show myself as up-to-the-minute as possible. This is to show the world what I look like since I took my studio pics.

I never said I was a perfect human. But someone went out of their way to post that. I believe it is the person whose review I had trouble getting down (but it finally came down). I believe this because the person also mentioned that in the post. He/it claimed I am able to have reviews removed anytime I want. Yeahhhhhhhhhh that would be a perfect world!

I know who this guy is and I do believe (NOT cuz he posted that thread) that he is a sociopath. Reason being, his review handle is the name of a charactor in an opera that meets a provider when he is out of the U.S. He makes love to her, she gets knocked up, and when he goes back home, he promises to come back and marry her. Well he does come back to see her, with his new wife (a non-provider) and his new family. He breaks her heart coldly and cruelly.

Anyone with a handle like that really hates women and especially providers. Sad thing is, when this poster visits a provider, he acts like he is having the best time! A few months later he writes scathing evil reviews so the provider does not know who wrote it. I did a lot of homework and found out who he is. I also inboxed the guy I suspected, who is an avid poster and emailer, and he refused to reply. Makes ya want to go "hmmmmm...." So that is the back-story to perhaps clear things up.

By the way, Queen Bee, I have seen you in person and you are FARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR from being a fat old hag! I was taken back by your beauty! Not only that, you LITERALLY had about 3 or 4 guys hovering around you. It reminded me of that scene in Gone With the Wind where Scarlett is at a pic nic and she is surrounded by admirers!

xoxo, Rose

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01-Feb-11, 09:03 AM (PST)
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16. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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You look just fine Rose!

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NaomiHarris
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01-Feb-11, 12:11 PM (PST)
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18. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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Some of these men hate themselves so much that they try to take us down with bad reviews and mean-spirited posts. I have learned not to pay them any attention.

I know for a fact you probably look 1000 times better than the guy criticizing you. I just had a guy give me a 7 in looks, was the lowest look rating I ever gotten. He was fat and stank even after a shower and wore glasses and had beady eyes. Ppl like him should be grateful anyone would see him at all....

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19. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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The guy is a fuckwad.. You know deep down that you are very, very attractive and you should not give this troll a second thought. I know it really hurts to hear something like that but I also wonder why women who turn heads in real life and get nothing but 8-10 ratings on looks would give a second though to what some idiot behind a keyboard has to say. Ignore this guy and pay attention to all of the men that are breaking their necks to look at you in public.

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TheGildedRose
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01-Feb-11, 04:06 PM (PST)
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20. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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Thank you Angel and all. As I said above, more than trying to make myself feel better, I am trying to do DAMAGE CONTROL for those who do not know me and might take this loser seriously.

If anyone wants to know who he is, please inbox me!

And again, you are all so caring and compassionate. I do value you all.

xoxo, Rose

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NaomiHarris
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23. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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Don't worry about it. Real hobbyiest ignore what guys like him have to say about girls. In fact, when they see his reviews they probably ignore him. The good guys that you want to see can see past the bullshit hun.

That's why I say don't let it get to you.

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24. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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Thank you Naomi. I want to remind you it was NOT a review, but a thread started by this nimrod.

I would like to think in a better world, people DID ignore those types of losers, but sadly this is not always the case. I have had people email me re: things said were about me in my reviews that are months old. They ask me "What did that guy mean by saying ...?" One time I said to the guy "Well did you read all the reviews this guy wrote? He says nothing good about ANY provider!" He said "Oh, no I didn't! I didn't think about that..." I have run into that a few times, leading me to believe that some people really are affected by some of the negativity. Sigh....!

However, I trust that the majority of people do take these things with a grain of salt. After getting the support you all gave me, it is SO MUCH EASIER to laugh this off. So thank you again and again and again!!!

xoxo, Rose

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21. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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   Not are you only physicaaly beautiful, BUT you are more...

Even if you were those things, you would be so beautiful and intelligent, in the way you communicate by your posts...

I know it is hard to realize when we are going through somebody hurting our feeling through words...

Our emotion gets mixed up and we give value to things we shouldn't...

REALLY, what so big deal about being a fat old hag...

Eventually we all will get older and fatter, specially if we don't take care of ourselves...

I also understand when people are fucking with providers, that it is more than some logic that we could dismiss, cause we use the site to do our businesses...

Specially if you are a specific type of girl that cater to a specific clients, when people make up things about the provider that is not true affects her business and livelyhood...

Celeste
~yo so chulla, Pappi con un grande verga~

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22. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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Oh gosh not at all! Your a hottie & I luhv your red hair!!!

~Daphnee Diora~

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25. "RE: Am I a fat old hag?"
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Rose, you're beautiful.
Gretchen

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