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lola_kitty
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97 posts		 31-Aug-10, 05:11 PM (PST)
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"not sure what to do....."
 
Man it seems like the more popular one gets the more problems that seem to arise! So this guy calls for a 30 min appointment gives me a reference, I check the reference she's a solid provider here on rb, she says he is kind of flakey, nervous, but over all a decent guy. So we set up an appointment today for 3:30, I'm waiting usually the guy will call 5 or 10 minutes before he gets to my incall....it's not really my job to call and remind them. It's getting close to 3:40 and he still isn't here or called so I assumed he just flaked! So someone else calls and I set up an appointment with him for 4pm. I call the other guy to let him know IN CASE he happened to be on his way, (sometimes guys think we really aren't that busy) I think he was mad I booked an appointment with someone else but he was late, so I wasn't able to see him anyway, unless it was after Mr. 4pm. Now he is irately threatening me saying him and his army buddies are going to write me some very bad reviews....I've worked very hard now to get the good reviews I have and am now a 5 star provider and finally getting the hang of things!!...but now I'm worried he might ruin all that for me, I feel kind of bad but he was supposed to be here at 3:30 and wasn't! Am I right or wrong? What can I do differently next time to avoid this problem??? I am not trying to make anyone unhappy here or have problems for myself...

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lola_kitty
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97 posts		 31-Aug-10, 05:22 PM (PST)
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1. "RE: not sure what to do....."
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This guy is seriously creeping me out!!! He keeps calling me slut and whore talking about "we will meet" omg how do I know if he is really serious now I am afraid to take any appointment ladies have any experience with threatening clients?!!

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Uknowuwantme
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298 posts		 31-Aug-10, 06:02 PM (PST)
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2. "RE: not sure what to do....."
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LAST EDITED ON 31-Aug-10 AT 06:03 PM (PST)
 
Im sorry to hear that, but you were totally right! If he made an appointment with you and he wasnt there at the agreed time, thats his own fault! As far as the reviews go, you can always alert red about the situation and the reviews will be taken off right away. The only thing i could suggest as far as him sending friends to you, its all about screening your calls. If they dont have a reference, dont see him. He will tire out and move onto the next victim. I had this reg of mine, little mexican dude, and i've been seeing him for a little over two years. I stopped seeing him because he showed up at my incall unannounced! He would always try to kiss me and not use a condom, really gross! Every nasty thing you could possibly think of, he has tried to do with me. He was calling me non stop, calling from different numbers, threatening to shoot me, telling me i better not be posting anymore, really scary stuff! He calls me once in a while now but i send him straight to VM and he wont call back. Just be careful who you see and remember, ALWAYS CHECK THOSE REFRENCES. Stay Safe and Stay Smart!

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miabarcelona
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137 posts		 31-Aug-10, 10:57 PM (PST)
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3. "RE: not sure what to do....."
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Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that. You were obviously in the right! Some of these guys can be absolute idiots. Luckily I've only had one text me, and let me tell ya it wasn't fun. One was enough. MIA:)

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lola_kitty
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97 posts		 01-Sep-10, 11:41 PM (PST)
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4. "RE: not sure what to do....."
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You know what I did screen and the reference was more than helpful ALSO prewarned me he was somewhat flakey but other than that an alright guy...she is a solid provider on here and is pretty pissed and feels really bad he did that, I don't think she'll be using him as a reference anymore....so far things have been going well although I haven't had a chance to work last night and today...but yes screening doesn't always help obviously...I'm actually glad I didn't see him though

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TheQueenBee
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120 posts		 02-Sep-10, 03:49 PM (PST)
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5. "RE: not sure what to do....."
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   Best thing is to stop any and all attention. Perhaps one last message. That he missed his appointment, which was not your fault. He wasn't courteous to call and explain, so being this is your profession you filled the time he missed.

Then tell him you do not want any contact with him at all. Explain any further contact will be unwelcome and you will take measures to protect your self, but only if he makes it necessary.

Then block his number and filter his emails. (Save them, if he does stalk you they can support your obtaining a Restraining Order).

I've heard some creative options, asking if his wife/gf would like to talk about his rude threats. Seems risky, but some of the PB ladies have backup if you know what I mean.

I heard one had the guy come meet her at a big hotel, asked what kind of car he drove so she could get him free parking with the gaurd. There was no gaurd, adn her friends tagged his car as a woman beater!

Sometimes I think the whole hustle has gone downhill. I haven't had too many problems thankfully.

Again best to ignore the jerk, other than to report him on that "problem client" website. In box me for details...

QB

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