xoxo, Rose

-Your Wonder Woman-

And I forgot to add in my above diatribe (oh lord, here I go! Those emails where they expect you to drop everything and start a 24 hour passionate email exchange and never once ask for an appointment!)

xoxo, Rose

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-Your Wonder Woman-

MEOWWWW

1. A COMPLETE ad. I mean from top to bottom. We want to see pictures that accurately show who you are. We accept that for discretion you don't always show your face but we do expect that the pics will show you as we will see you. Mix in some non-professional photos. Personally I like it when you show pics from all sides.

2. Respond to our email and in-boxes or remove those items from your ad. Understand that not all of the gentlemen you will receive have had formal training and therefore might not have a command of the English language. For some English might not be their native tongue. I agree that all mail should be respectful from both parties.

3. Not all hobbyists write business letters so bear with us if we get a little short and more direct to the point. To avoid the "Can I see you in a half hour?" place how much advance time you need in your ad (after all we are going to read the entire ad )

4. Not all ladies require the donation before the session begins but either way don't be afraid to ask if the gentleman has an envelope today. Some of us get rapture just looking at you and might accidentally forget to set it down.

5. Make the shower area a place where we will want to get clean for you. In other words make it not only clean but inviting. Have some products that we can use (not just girly stuff) such as mouthwash with disposable cups, non-aromatic soaps and hair products, provide a wash cloth, possibly even a disposable razor and shave cream. We don't want our 5 O'clock shadow to keep us out of the pleasure zone! Don't just send us to the bath area, walk us in there, show us the products and gently remind us as you hand us the wash cloth that the cleaner we are everywhere the more likely you will go everywhere. Start the shower for us and perhaps tell us you'll join us in a few minutes. If you do join us you can insure that all areas got cleaned and we can insure that you are just as clean. Which BTW we also expect from you.

6. Please turn off your phones, TV and any other things that would interrupt an otherwise fabulous time.

7. Remember you are the time keeper. We are being so pampered that it is often difficult to have any sense of real time. Not everyone brings additional cash with them to tip for excellent service or for longer sessions. Some of us are so blissed out that we just plain forget, please don't take it as a personal affront.

I'm only one voice I'm sure some of the other gentlemen will have things to add.

Grip
Love to dive where it's wet continued...........

8) Clean sheets, towels, bathroom, bedroom. Heck clean and tidy in general. Dirty sheets and damp towels are a complete turn off for me. I do not enjoy seeing used condoms in trash either.
9) Attend to your personal hygiene. Please brush your teeth. Smooth legs. And be recently showered. If you have engaged in certain bb activities with a previous client or with a SO, please pay extra attention to removing all traces.

10) No perfumes, or other scents that can leave a trace on us.

11) Remember that my penis is attached. I would like to leave with it still attached.

12) Please don't obviously fake it, unless you can fake it very well. On the other hand, you need not look like you would rather have a tooth extracted without anesthetic.

culo is a culo

2. establishing client "intended time" by -- either client posting an initial donation in a visible spot or the provider confirming ... are you here for an hour or an eternity??? Or some where in the middle??? (love grip's idea that the provider control the time) and she needs to be time aware...

3. Not only have clean and dry sheets and towels.. but a dry shower and hide the mountain of used laundry where it cannot be viewed.. (under the sink is not good)

4. Phone manners .. there is an "NLP" tecnique many folks know about .. called "mirror and matching" ... where you match your clients voice and possibly there body stance.. This applies on the phone ... if the caller says "hey were u B bitch?" and you want them as a "client" then you can answer "wit my homie wat up?" .. answering like the Queen of England will not land that client! .. Likewise ... if the caller is the average white/indian/asian geek that is predominately found in Silicon Valley ... you should probably match their tone more closely than "wha ??" "huh??" Lots of new provider have not really thought out what they want to say ... so they opt for the "idiot talk" .. and it takes a while to get them to speak full well connected sentences... by then --- I am already speed dialing someone else.. (saying "what" or "I am sorry I didn t understand you" u with some enunciation does not give LE or anyone else any more or less information than "wha" and "huh")

5. IF a client --- (especially one with a well known handle) shows up at your door and says .. I just played 20 questions with the manager of your hotel (or the head of security) --- you NEED to change venues ASAP -- when the New Provider inevitably says "oh -- you mean Hector -- that's no problem he's a good friend and just looking out for me" ... I absolutely know that it is time to jet! (although --- yes I know that it is also a great way for an A-hole client to mess with you -- its your choice) --- As a matter of fact I wonder why a provider would stay if she HAS become "great friends" with those folks... there seems to be a line of a hotel providing great service to a provider and -- alternatively .. being too interested in whats up with "Candi in 17b"

6. Lets say I have showered and gotten completely cleaned up and I am essentially odor free... and you have just done the same .. BUT ... after you showered you decided to use the toilet ... I suggest give those private parts a scrubbing with a wash cloth or something.... cause my nose is sensitive and I can smell the pee, the butt, or the charmin... and that aint very Charming! lol --- After all there are no other odors around in that instance... (there is squeaky clean and then there is semi squeaky --- and there is pulling apart some bodies "parts" and finding teeny tiny little white balls )

7. Emails.. I am not a stickler for emails... dont care if you respond... However-- responding could be a gold mine for a few reasons.. First it seems to be a hot button amongst the client community in RB... The second is that the providers I have visited on several occassions, have all established some sort of "rapport (or connection)" with me ... where we are/or have gotten to know each other.. and some if it is through email... So I am thinking these clients that have not gotten a response.. want some sort of rapport before they see someone... Some have a connection where we know more about each others daily lives, others the rapport is much simpler.... I think the best one ... is an RB gal that, when she is thinking of coming into town, texts me "Hi" .. thats it ... nothing more and nothing less... She's a great gal and it's always a blast when I get a simple "Hi" .. cause she knows the dawg that I am .. I am gonna check her ad... see the suggested date and time she is thinking of "blowing in on" and then I can text her back .. something equally "relationship building" like "2pm tuesday 5/10/10" and the game is on .... all other communication can occur when we meet..

8. Yahoo IM ... allows a "status message" some gals will post as status --- "burlingame -- freaking horny -- 3/3/10-- 3/10/10" so where's you client list to build your rapport with .. with a private yahoo "tweet" ??? --- you can do more with websites .. but few .. like 1 percent maybe of the 5 stars use that marketing tool effectively (it does take time) ... OTOH -- a one person business owner should try and spend 1/3 of their time working ON their business and hopefully 2/3 of their time IN their business. And when you are starting the numbers should be "flipped" caveat on the IM .. if you keep your handle "civilian acceptable" and your message civilan acceptable .. it will help in me viewing my IM's anywhere I am

hope that helps

dong

Other items to add or expand upon from my own experiences both good and bad:
1a. COMPLETE ad. Please be sure to list your requirements in your ad. This includes number of references, what specific information you need for each references as well as your offered session lengths and their required donations. Worse case scenario is seeing an ad that doesn't list a required donation and states they will not talk about donations on the phone.

1b. Don't lie or be deceitful about your pics, services or pricing. You will get found out eventually, it will get posted, and then you'll tarnish your reputation.

7a. If for some reason you do notice time is running out, gently mention it, and ask how we would like to either conclude our time together or if we would like to extend our time. Nothing is more awkward than asking for extra donation at the end of the session because time went over, and your customer is not being prepared because it wasn't brought up earlier.
7b. Conversely, if we finish early, ask how we would like to spend the rest of the time together. Trying for a second round, a massage, cuddling, or a friendly conversation, can all be good options. The last thing you want is to have your customer feel cheated out of their time with you.

13. Set the mood and setting. Dim the lights, change the lightbulbs, use candles, set up some music. Titillate our senses of sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch or at least make sure there aren't any distractions to our senses. Control and set the stage so that you and your customer can relax and focus on your time together.

14. Be sure you have your supplies and are well stocked. Clean towels, clean washcloths, condoms, lube, mouthwash and disposable cups, soap, shampoo, etc. It's terrible to have a bad experience or get a bad review because you didn't have the supplies you need to do your job.

15. Provide a specific address or parking location for the customer to call you from just prior to the session. You don't want to start the session on the wrong foot by having your customer frustrated or frazzled because they were driving around an extra 20 minutes trying to figure out how to get to you.

16. After care. Just because the customer has orgasmed doesn't mean the experience is over. Try and allow your customer the luxury to revel in the moment. Giving your customer some time to collect themselves, providing a warm washcloth or shower to clean up, taking a few moments to chat about your time together and wrapping yourself in a sexy robe can complete the experience. Bad customer service at the end can ruin what may have been a wonderful time up until that point.

17. After session follow up. Prior to parting, ask your customer what the best way to reach them is. A call, e-mail or text thanking us for our time together, or alerting us that you're in town can be a nice surprise. HOWEVER that's only if we've given you the thumbs up to do so. Unwanted calls, e-mails or texts can be embarrassing, harmful and can ruin any chances of your customer coming back again.

18. Keep in mind the type of experience you want to provide. Be clean, be polite, stay classy, communicate clearly, manage expectations, provide good customer service and have fun to create an experience that will not only have your customers floating on a cloud when they leave, but also dreaming of the next time they can see you again.

BlueLantern

" Respond to our email and in-boxes or remove those items from your ad."
To which I'll add - answer phone calls. Regardless, answer something. Learn to say "no" briefly and politely, instead of just blowing people off and making them wonder if they should keep trying to reach you or move on.

Floor mats in bathrooms -- there are still provider bathrooms which have no floor mats, only bare floors to slip on. This is so elementary that I'm amazed it still has to be said.

If you require a shower, then DO NOT count shower time as part of the session time. This is rude, inconsiderate and exploitive. Period.

Oralio

-Your Wonder Woman-

I have a couple of questions though and I'm not sure if this is the right place to request clarification, but here goes:

1. I feel really funny about having condom wrappers in the trash in my incall but I'm in a hotel...any suggestions?

2. Do I ask for extra soaps each day with I arrive? I'm wondering how the gentleman feel about using an open soap bar versus having a wrapped bar exclusively for his use. That again leads to multiple used soap bars in the trash...

3. Is it really up to me to ask you to shower? Not everyone needs a shower upon arrival but I've had one client who did but he had a 1/2 hour session and was tight on time. When I asked him to wash up with a washcloth, I heard the water go on and he was back out in 30 seconds with no soap having been used. How do I handle that graciously while still ensuring that I'm not being asked to put my face in the sticky zone?

Again thanks for all of the great advice and here's to hoping that our guest relations all improve in direct relation to the common sense approach to improving the quality of our time together.

Bring small plastic baggies with you and take all evidence with you when you leave the building to be disposed of first chance elsewhere.

"2. Do I ask for extra soaps each day with I arrive? I'm
wondering how the gentleman feel about using an open soap
bar versus having a wrapped bar exclusively for his use.
That again leads to multiple used soap bars in the trash..."

I buy tons of travel size amenities for the shower. Keep the hotel as in the dark about things as possible, I rarely commnicate anything to them. You can also bring extra towels since hotels rarely give enough, and another seperate plastic bag for the dirty towels to take home to wash, also so they dont pile on bathroom floor. Take everything with you when you leave, no "escort" trash.

"3. Is it really up to me to ask you to shower?"

Yes. If you dont ask, you are gambling. Its nice to offer to join them in the shower and that way its all fair, session can begin soaping up eachother in the shower, that usually makes everyone happy and comfortable.

I realize the towel situation is always a problem and my suggestions are just ideally when possible. I know its not always possible to bring your own or take them home with you to wash. That is just if you can. Its best no matter what to keep mess out of hotel and clients way however possible.

-Your Wonder Woman-

at my personal incall I have tons of nice white towels and washcloths

Hugs and Kisses!
Amee

And the reason we don't answer our phones on our days off is that we would never get anything else done! You guys call non-stop! I've literally had the same guy call me 20 times IN A ROW when I was at a family event. So please don't get mad if we don't always answer. Just call someone else!